WHEN YOUR PARTNER HURTS FROM PAST TRAUMA MEMORIES

What an opportunity to show love to your

partner when they’ve been deeply hurt in

the past! This takes a lot of wisdom as you

tiptoe gently through their valley where

unpleasant memories reside. Please be

more patient when they have a flashback

trigger moment. Your words have the

ability to bring life or death – let me help

you to choose words that soothe their soul.

Don’t take things personally and don’t think

they’re mad at you if they need their space

and don’t want to reciprocate. Your job is to

be quick to listen, slow to speak and

especially slow to become angry. Be their

tender partner. Don’t make them panic. Let

me help you navigate this difficult journey

as a couple….