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God is the best solution and wisest expert when it comes to helping us heal from any and all hurts or habits. Not only does He have sympathy; He has solutions. He is the least surprised when we tell Him our secrets and He is most helpful in transforming us by renewing our mind and healing our memories. He’s not the last resort; He’s the first choice. Why?
Here are ten reasons to include God in your thinking as you begin to deal with your deepest hurts, everyday life, painful past, strongest temptations, or darkest secrets:
1. God knows what life can do. He told us that in this life, we WILL have trials and tribulations. It’s going to happen so don’t be surprised or overcome with life’s curveballs. You will be tempted to quit. You’ll have people who hurt you and disappoint you, a lot. Injustice will happen. Stuff will stick to you and make you feel guilty, angry, or dirty. This life can be and will be rough and raw. He knows that and He knows your situation. Life can be exhilarating or humiliating, delightful or disgusting. When we’re wounded, we’re weakened. We’re wired that way. He knows how we can be deeply hurt in life.
2. God wrote a book for you. He describes real life stories about family dysfunction, bitter disappointments, violent rape scenes, honeymoon sexual bliss, trickery and adultery, devastating emotional trauma and desperate suicidal thoughts. The list goes on. You’ll be amazed and surprised at what you find in the Bible as God describes life. It’s all there in the Bible - so let’s examine these stories to see the huge lessons that can be learned in daily life. He gives us enormous instructions on how to overcome trauma, cope with hurt, renew our hope, and have healthy relationships again.
3. God knows what hurt feels like. Just like you, He was abandoned by those who promised they would never leave. He had his own Judas who secretly plotted behind him and betrayed him with a gentle kiss. Sound familiar? He was stripped naked, physically violated and sexually humiliated in front of a crowd. He was acquainted with grief and a man of sorrows. He’s been there and done that with life’s injustices, tribulations, and tragedies. He offers you a new way of handling the hurts of this life and helping you to work through yours.
4. God came to bring you life. He told us that He came to bring freedom to those held captive. That might describe how you feel now. You can’t forget and you can’t forgive. It hasn’t gone away, not yet. When Jesus comes into your life, those living in darkness will see a great light. He came to rescue us from thoughts that will destroy or deceive us. The truth will set us free, and He will reveal that truth to you. We need to change our thinking about God and see that He is not a killjoy after all; rather, He came to give us joy! You’ll be thrilled to see this brand-new way of thinking and living.
5. God knows what you went through. You probably think He wasn’t there, but He was. Nothing escapes Him. He alone knows what really happened. You weren’t alone then and you’re not alone now. He knows all the exact details of who, what, why, where, when, and how long - more than anyone else. You can get finality and clarity as He shows you the truth. The false guilt or self-blame that has accumulated through the years can fade away. It would be wise to include Him in your healing since He is the only one who knows everything that really happened to you.
6. God does what we can’t do. He offers you strength and peace that the world cannot ever give you. He can do abundantly above all that you could ever ask or imagine. As far as the heavens are above the earth, His ways are above our ways. No self-help book can accomplish what He can do. No one can whisper to you the truths that He will whisper to you when you’re quiet in His presence. If He can make blind people to see – paralyzed people to walk – calm a raging storm – actually walk on water – and even raise dead people back to life – is there anything God can’t do in helping you to heal?
7. One day, He’ll right all wrongs. Everything we see in life will be reversed and will be the exact opposite from now. We think that those who do wrong will continue to get away with their secrets or sins, but they won’t. We think this life is all there is but it isn’t. Everything will be exposed and the truth will come out. He will wipe the tears from our eyes and make the memories go away. It will be settled and justice will prevail. But before He does that, He’ll turn this bad into good. Your misery in life will become your ministry in life. You’re going to comfort others with the same comfort you’ve been given.
8. Your heart is in His hands. That’s actually great news; it’s not all up to you to have to heal yourself. He can restore and soften your heart. He can make it strong again and mold it so you can trust again and feel clean again, despite what happened. God is in charge of fixing any and all kinds of broken hearts and strengthening weakened hearts. The Lord is close to the broken hearted. He binds up all our wounds. He knows how you grieve your loss and hate what has happened. He’s got very strong hands. Jesus told us that He is gentle in spirit and that we’ll find rest for our weary souls and heavy burdens.
9. Forgiveness comes from God. It’s the last thing you ever want to even think about and that’s okay. Bitterness and resentment can easily and quickly grow into something very unhealthy for you. But sooner or later, there will come a time when it’s best for you to forgive and you’ll need God’s help to do this properly - especially when no apologies will ever come from the person who has hurt you so deeply. Jesus talked a lot about forgiveness and extended it to people who abused and crucified him on a cross. He’ll show you how to forgive the person/s who hurt you so that you can get on with life...
10. He’ll never let you go. People let us down. They disappoint us, deceive us and even try to destroy us. God is in a totally different category. He doesn’t lie. He doesn’t leave. That’s huge. Healing takes on a brand-new dimension and speed when God is allowed to enter your life when you’re re-connected back to Him. When you’ve got shattered dreams, broken promises, family chaos, panic attacks, overwhelming rage, false guilt, permanent memories, childhood lost, trust gone, damaged goods, or feeling depressed – there’s absolutely nothing that can separate you from the love of God. Let’s talk…
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Seven Sexual Topics, Not Just One.
Almost every website, book or ministry specializes in one and only one sexual topic - but this website here is the only one where you obtain information and advice on all of the most pressing sexual issues in society! You’ll find HELPFUL RESOURCES for pornography, abortion, sexual assault or rape, casual sex lifestyle, a sexless marriage, childhood sexual abuse, and same-sex attraction. This will save you tons of time. It's all found here!
Causes AND Consequences of Sexual Misconduct.
Mostly all websites specialize in either the causes or the consequences of sexual behavior. That's not enough. You need to know both. In each of the seven sexual topics listed, you'll see both the reasons and results of each unique one. It is written to help you understand the victim and the victimizer. Do you know what to say to both? The sexual offender needs to see what kind of emotional damage they have done to someone as a result of their selfishness. The sexual victim needs to know why their offender did what they did as they begin to understand that it’s not their fault that it happened. We all need to see the bigger picture.
He is the God of All Grace.
(1 Peter 5:10). Only God can give every kind of strength and grace that you will need in life. He knows exactly what your broken or weak heart needs to overcome this event or habit. If you are having a tough time in trying to forgive someone or yourself, He gives you that kind of grace. If you feel that you can't stop being bitter or angry towards the person that did this to you, He gives you that kind of grace. If you desperately want to feel clean again after what happened to you, He will help you with that kind of grace. If you want to overcome an addiction that is out of control, He gives you that kind of strength. Whatever you need, He has it.
The Word of God is More Powerful than Our Words.
(2 Timothy 3:16,17). We are usually egotistical in thinking that our words and our warmth are most important in helping people. While these qualities can indeed be helpful, we must also remember that the words of God are the most healing and helpful gifts we can give our people! If people are to be restored, they will be transformed by the renewing of their minds. God's Word must permeate their minds. The Scriptures are meant to correct, train, and equip people for every good work. If you want to help yourself or people with deep sexual hurts or habits, you have to know your Bible well. There is no substitute. Don't rely on your bubbly personality; rely instead on Biblical verses, characters, or stories. God didn't leave anything out of His Word.
Church is the Best Place for Sexual Sanctification.
(Hebrews 10:24,25; Ephesians 6:1,2). Yes, religious folks can be rigid and rude The church can have some of the most unforgiving and unkind people in the world. Jesus knows that; His harshest words were directed towards those kinds of people. At the same time, the church can also have some of the nicest and wisest people on earth! God teaches us that we should be in the fellowship and company of His people in a local church. It helps us grow and change. The church has answers that the world doesn't have. Being in the presence of God’s people is a necessity, not a luxury, in becoming balanced. This is the place where we find support and strength on how to live and heal.
Jesus Understands Your Hurt and Pain More Than Anyone.
(Hebrews 4:15-16; Isaiah 53). Jesus experienced more sorrow than anyone who has ever lived. He understands what you're going through more than anyone else does. You know the feeling of being deserted and betrayed by someone who said they cared - so does Jesus. You know the feeling of anger and wrath at the unspeakable injustice that has been done to you – so does He. You know the shame and humiliation of being stripped of your clothes and then physically abused – so does Jesus. There is no weakness, sadness, emotion, or temptation that is foreign to Jesus. Study His life and you'll heal much faster.
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